Thursday, May 22, 2014

Chicken Farmers

Chicken Farmers

Nathan decided he wanted chickens. So here are a few photos from our adventures in chicken farming.

 This is the brooding box Nathan made for them. At this point they are obviously not little anymore, but we got them just days after hatching.

Before the coop was ready we would bring the chickens out
into the front yard and let the kids play with them. 

The coop. Up on top is Nathan's weather station.

 This is the chicken run. You can see the automatic chicken door at the bottom of the coop.
It opens each morning and closes each evening to let the chickens into the run or back in the coop. Nathan is building an automatic feeding and water system also. That's what's on the far right in the picture.

The chickens love the roosting bars!

We use sand in the coop. We bought 4 kitty litter shovels and every morning we send the kids out to shovel the chicken poop.

This is Splash. Her foot started showing signs of curling at 4 weeks old. Eventually her whole leg was paralyzed. We didn't catch it at 4 weeks, unfortunately. We looked back at pictures we'd taken each week to find when the problem started. We took her out of the brooder box with the other chickens and gave her a box to herself because she couldn't get to the water and food. It was sad. When we tried to integrate her back with the other chickens, they wouldn't accept her. The kids took losing her pretty hard.

Here they are enjoying the roost

Gorgeous birds 

 A bird built a nest behind the automatic feeder and now there are two little eggs in the nest!

 These are the nesting boxes and off on the far right you get a glimpse of the roosting bars.  These pictures were before we put the chickens in, so there's all kinds of junk still hanging out in the coop.

We just bought paint, classic red and white to make it look like a real barn. We haven't painted yet, but when we get around to it, I'll post pictures.

Happy Birthday, Faye!

Faye Turns 1

I'm still playing catch up on here, but in November Faye turned 1. She is an awesome little babe and we love her. We are so glad you came to our family, Faye!

Here are a few more recent pictures of Faye.

Lincoln Turned 3. Back in October. Last year.

A Very Late Happy Birthday!

In October Lincoln turned 3. He of course wanted a Doctor Who birthday party. We had blue streamers and a TARDIS cake. Really, it was a blueberry bread loaf with cream cheese frosting on it, but it worked. Nathan decorated it to resemble the TARDIS. Lincoln was thrilled :)

Yay for Lincoln! We love you!

Monday, March 31, 2014

Homemade Halloween

 This post is so ridiculously late. But here's our Halloween. From last year.

Jeremy and Megan were Link and Zelda from The Legend of Zelda, Emma was a classic witch, and Lincoln was a monster.

I didn't include a back picture of her costume because really, it's just a black dress and cape, what's to see?

I cannot begin to describe the stress the detail Megan's costume required. Please don't look close :)

Yep. Stolen right off Pinterest except I made it even simpler because, hey, did you even see the other costumes I had to make??

Nathan made the sword holder thingy (and yes, that's my technical term for it) and he crocheted the "chainmail."

The best part about all these costumes? These were probably the cheapest costumes we've ever done. I had to buy almost none of the fabric as it was all given to me by a gentleman at church whose wife passed away well before we moved here. His kids had already gone through her fabric and taken what they wanted and he gave the rest to me. The little leather pouch on Jeremy's belt is from a leather purse we found at Goodwill. Nathan cut it up and I sewed it together. I think the duct tape used to carry his sword is the most expensive piece of any of the costumes.

I hope your Halloween (almost 6 months ago) was fabulous.

My Response to the Ordain Women Group (I won't say it, but I think they are crazy)

LDS Conference Center in Salt Lake City, Utah

FYI, this blog post is mostly theraputic for me. This has been bugging me for weeks.

Recently there was a meeting held for the women of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (8 years old and up). Megan and I watched it online tonight. It was a great conference filled with inspired talks, beautiful music, and opportunities to learn and grow spiritually.

Next Saturday and Sunday there will be other sessions, similar to this one, but for all members of the Church, not just the women. It will be an opportunity to hear a prophet of God, apostles and disciples of Christ, as well as some great women leaders in the Church.

Another special meeting will also take place on Saturday evening. This meeting is geared toward the men and young men of the Church (12 years old and up). Just as the women had a meeting just for them, the men have one with talks and messages meant to teach and uplift them in their specific roles in relation to the gospel of Jesus Christ.

You may have seen on various online news stories about a group of women called Ordain Women. Unfortunately, these women think they are missing out on something by not attending the conference session that is intended for the men and young men of the church. They have sent letters to the leaders of the Church insisting their admittance into the conference, and more saddening than that, they've insisted they be ordained to the priesthood.

If you are unfamiliar with this term, when I say "the priesthood," I'm not referring to men in black shirts with a little square of white at the neck. A fabulous book called Daughters in My Kingdom expresses perfectly what I mean by the term "priesthood."

The priesthood is the eternal power and authority of God by which He blesses, redeems, and exalts His children, bringing to pass "the immortality and eternal life of man." 

Heavenly Father's worthy sons are ordained to priesthood offices and are assigned specific duties and responsibilities. They are authorized to act in His name to look after His children and to help them receive ordinances and make and honor covenants. All Heavenly Father's sons and daughters are equally blessed as they draw upon the power of the priesthood.

Now, before anyone goes off on me and says these women are right, why can't they be ordained to the priesthood and be bishops and stake presidents (leaders of geographical units within the Church), read the words above again.

"...worthy sons are ordained..."

Simply put, this is the way God wants it. It's like when you were a kid and your brother got an ear infection and had to take the pink medicine that most kids think smells like bubble gum, but I think smells horrid. All the siblings want to drink the overly sweet bubble gum goodness (except me, ew) but your mom and dad and the doctor say no, it's for your brother with the ear infection, your ears are fine. The medicine will help him and him only as far as the ear infection goes, but it will help the entire family sleep better at night because he won't be up howling in pain.

Everyone is blessed by the priesthood, you don't have to be ordained to it to receive its blessings. Now for the part of the analogy that doesn't really work with amoxicillin, but that's ok.

When was the last time you saw a teenage boy serving someone simply because he saw a need and wanted to fill it? You don't see it too often, right? Now a teenage girl serving someone, that's not unheard of. Girls are more likely to see someone in need and register the fact that the person could use a friend, a plate of cookies, a girls night out, or someone to talk to. A guy sees someone in need and thinks, "Stinks to be that guy." Or, "I'm hungry, where's the nearest Taco Bell?"

Women were created to register the needs of others. It comes naturally. We read expressions better than men, we understand emotions better than men, we know how to help and serve more readily than men do. We organize blanket and coat drives, meals for families in need or families with new babies; we look for volunteer positions to make our schools and communities better.

For example, I was in charge of finding volunteers for the kids' group at the Family Crisis Center where I went to college. I quickly found at least 6 girls willing to help and only 1 guy. I part of an organization called the Service Center that helped all the different volunteer groups stay organized and kept the college updated on our needs, the community's needs, and our activities. Most of the leaders of the volunteer groups were female. For the Behavioral Rehabilitation Center where I also volunteered, there were no guy volunteers at all.

Women serve willingly. Women serve because we naturally reach out and find it easier to be selfless. Women become mothers, whether we have children or not, all women are mothers. What more selfless act can there be than devoting your life to husband and children to ensure a better world, or ensure the happiness of those we love? Yes, our lives are still our own and we do things for ourselves. I'm not saying taking time for yourself suddenly means you aren't selfless. Everyone needs time to recharge, take a break, and rejuvenate. (Please don't leave comments about how women need to leave their families and "find themselves" because that's a load of you know what. If you don't know who you are by the time you are married and have kids, that's pretty stupid because you're the only one whose lived with you nonstop for 20+ years and you shouldn't have gotten married without knowing who you are. How can you expect a spouse to know you and your needs if you don't know yourself, ok? But that's a post for another rant.)

How many guys do you know wash the dishes simply because the dishes are dirty and sitting there, needing to be done? How many men do you know would think to bring a meal to a sick friend? Or would offer to babysit so a friend can take a night class to finish a college degree? Or see a news story about refugees freezing and decide to start a coat drive?

I know women who have done all of these; some of them I've been the recipient of and others I've had the great blessing of being a part of. My friend Emily started a coat drive when she heard about Afghan refugees freezing during the winter months. A WOMAN at the post office asked what we were doing there with so many boxes and when we told her, she insisted on writing out a check to help with the postage. The only guy in line that talked to us had assumed we were selling stuff on ebay and only nodded his head when we told him what we were really doing.

Now, in case you are wondering what this has to do with the priesthood. . . . You can't use the priesthood for yourself. The priesthood is God's power on earth, used to bless His children and help them return to Him. The men and young men who hold the priesthood authority use it to bless others. They can bless and pass the bread and water to the congregation during sacrament meeting using the priesthood. They lead the Sacrament meeting and entire congregation, making sure everything runs smoothly, that everyone has a place, a job, that everyone's needs are met. The priesthood is used to baptize or when someone is sick it is used as they place their hands on the sick person's head and pronounce a blessing upon them to help them heal. The priesthood holder cannot give a blessing of healing to himself; he cannot pass the bread and water to himself, he doesn't ever use it for himself.

Guys don't always understand service, but they do understand duty. The priesthood helps men understand their duty toward their fellowman. It reminds them to look for service opportunities. The priesthood is God's way of saying, "Hey, you need to get in there and help out, too. Don't leave everything to the women, don't you see everything they are already doing? You learn stuff when you serve, you feel better when you serve, so go do it!"

The women who seek to hold the priesthood are acting in direct opposition to what the priesthood has been given to us for. They are selfish. The priesthood is never selfish. It cannot be used selfishly. In the Doctrine and Covenants (a book of scripture we use along with the Bible and Book of Mormon) the Lord says if a man tries to use the priesthood for vain reasons, including selfishness, or unrighteousness dominion, or any unworthy reason, then the heavens withdraw and "Amen to the priesthood or authority of that man."

Here is a great quote by President Uchtdorf on Priesthood.  (The link on "quote" will take you to the talk this came from, the link on "President Uchtdorf" will take you to his wiki page.)

Brethren, we hold “the Holy Priesthood, after the Order of the Son of God.” It is the power God has granted to men on earth to act for Him. In order to exercise His power, we must strive to be like the Savior. This means that in all things we seek to do the will of the Father, just as the Savior did. It means that we give all glory to the Father, just as the Savior did. It means that we lose ourselves in the service of others, just as the Savior did.

See? It is impossible for the priesthood to be used selfishly. The women who insist that they know more than God, more than those He has placed as His mouthpiece, cannot possibly use the priesthood correctly or with authority.

I will never claim to be a feminist. You will never see me claim that women should have it all right now. Sure, I can have lots of what I want, but not all at once. Right now I have a fabulous family, wonderful husband, great kids, a college degree, and hobbies I enjoy and try to make time for. I have goals and dreams of things I'd love to do. I'd love to go back to college and learn more about a myriad of different subjects. I'd love to get a book published. I'd love to be a librarian. I'd love to teach English in a junior high. I'd love to stay home all day and just write and sew. I'd love to travel. But I can't do everything at once. I'd blow up. Not getting the priesthood doesn't make me less of a daughter of God, it doesn't make me less important, it doesn't mean I'm less loved. It means simply that I have a different role, a different responsibility, and different duty that He wants me to fulfill.

I'll leave you with a challenge to watch General Conference April 5 and 6. If you don't know how or where to watch it, go to your nearest LDS Chapel or

Saturday, November 9, 2013

Our Home School Books

I've had a few people ask about what books we use in homeschool. So here we go.

We've been using Susan Wise Bauer's books for history; we are on the first book. It presents facts, dates, names, etc., but also includes stories to help the kids remember the important stuff. There are activities like Q&A, summaries, dictations, coloring pages, crosswords, maps, and tests. I use this with all the kids as it's divided by time period and not age or level. For Emma's tests, I read the test to her and record her answers, but she's almost a good enough reader that she could probably read most of the test herself.

Story of the World: History for the Classical Child

Grammar: We use her First Language Lessons. They are also easy to use and I've actually learned some things that I'd forgotten since I was a kid. We have levels 1 for Emma, 2 for Jeremy, and 3 for Megan.

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For Writing we use Bauer's Writing With Ease. I don't do this with Emma, for her, I write stories with her. Jeremy and Megan use levels 2 and 3, respectively. I really like these books. They have selections of classic literature for the kids to read and then I ask questions so see what they remember. Then they have to summarize (harder than it sounds) and write their summaries, dictations, or copywork.

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 I really, really like these books. They are easy for me to teach from and the kids actually really like the lessons (with the exception of Jeremy who would rather not have to write, but it's getting better).

Product DetailsFor Math we are using Saxson Math. I like the way the lessons are set up, easy to follow along, but I'll be honest, I don't "get" the Meeting Book. We have them, but I don't use them at all.I skip that part of each lesson. Emma uses the kindergarten Saxon Math book.

Jeremy is pretty much at a 3rd grade level in his math, so instead of making him go through 2nd grade math first, I had him skip to 3rd. This is fabulous because I am able to teach Jeremy and Megan together.

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 While I like these lessons, I think they move too slowly. I've had to skip lessons, especially in the kindergarten book. I should have just had Emma start with 1st grade math. Oh well.

To assist with their math and to give me a good idea of where they are since these move slower than what I'd like, I use an online program called  This website graphs where the kids are in their math skills and progressively gets harder as their skills improve. There is a learning curve if your kids aren't used to typing on the number pad section of a keyboard. For a while I would have Jeremy and Emma sit on my lap and have them tell me the answer to the problem on the screen and I would type in the answer. Now, Jeremy does it all on his own. I still do Emma's or I have Megan do it if I'm working with Jeremy.

Science. Oh, science. I bought a book called R.E.A.L. Science Odyssey. . It's only ok. Nothing great. It has some fun labs that the kids enjoy, but the book itself really isn't what I was looking for. We'll do whatever labs we feel like doing and then find something else for next year.

Product DetailsReading. For reading we just read. Anything and everything. Emma has flown through her "Red Books." She's moved on to the classic Dr. Seuss style books and even tries more difficult books. We go to the library a lot.

Megan never stops reading, so I know she's good.

Jeremy doesn't read on his own as much as Megan, but he does read a lot.

Product DetailsIn addition to letting them read what they pretty much want, I introduce books to them often and I take time to read to them every day. We are currently reading A Series of Unfortunate Events: Book the 5th, The Austere Academy and The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe. Usually I read a chapter or two of each book because they beg for more. Who am I to argue with reading "just one more chapter"?

We do some fun stuff for P.E. I told them when I was in elementary school for P.E. a student was often picked to lead. They'd get to decide what exercises and how many. My kids love this! I've had to put a cap on how many sit ups and push ups they call out, but usually they like to stay in the 20's. We've also done bike riding, playing at the park, swimming, yoga, and the Pinterest favorite: The Harry Potter Workout.

Occasionally I'll pull something off the internet that I saw on Pinterest or Teachers Pay Teachers and use it. Usually I do this with American History, Art, and Science. A friend in the Philippines put on her blog pictures of rice fields and pictures of the rice drying on the sidewalks and streets. This was perfect because we'd just learned about Ancient China and talked about how their crops were different from those in Egypt and Mesopotamia because China was able to grow rice and melons. Thanks to my friend's blog, my kids could see what rice fields looked like and what is done with the rice.

So this is what we do. I start the day off with a song, prayer, the pledge of allegiance, and a spiritual lesson (this week we are learning the Articles of Faith). Then since I have everyone I usually do one of our lessons that involves everyone, whether it's history, science, reading, or a special like art. Then I break them up and work with one kid at a time (unless I'm doing math and have both Megan and Jeremy) and give the kid(s) who aren't being worked with something specific to do. Emma usually works on handwriting, reading, her xtramath, or helps Lincoln with making patterns with our math blocks. Megan and Jeremy may be in charge of helping Emma or Lincoln, doing their xtramath, reading, writing, or I may have them study about a specific subject to share with everyone later. For example, Megan and Jeremy read about Halloween, Veterans Day, and tree leaves and shared what they learned with everyone.

Thursday, October 10, 2013

The Revealed Home School Life

I never ever wanted to home school my kids. I've wanted them out of the house and in public school for a long time. This was the year I was going to have three in school/two at home. And then home school happened.

And let me tell you.

I love it.

Yes, it began because my kids' teachers were awful. It was a "last resort" kind of response to sub-par education, but it became more. As I was preparing and thinking about home school I wanted to talk to other parents who were thinking about home schooling, planning on doing it, or already in the groove. Luckily, I know enough home schooling families here that I feel I'm well supported. It's nice knowing people who also know that home schooling isn't as weird as we all thought it would be and who know that I'm teaching my kids and not using the excuse of home schooling to be lazy. Trust me, there's nothing lazy about home school. Well, I do sleep in later than I did before. But why in the world would I get up at 6:15AM if I don't need to shove my kids out for a bus at 7:30 anymore? Right?

One of these fabulous people I talked to has kids around my kids' ages. And get this, HE'S been home schooling HIS kids for a while now. His wife actually works with Nathan and he stays home with the kids and teaches them. His kids are way smart by the way.

I asked him why he decided to home school. His reply? "I felt I wouldn't get enough time with my kids if I sent them off to school."


That was the exact opposite of how I felt. I was pretty sure we all needed a break from each other, because we drive each other nuts. Plus, I wanted to write my books and sew aprons and clothes and quilts without interruption. Yep, there it is. I wanted some time for myself. With 5 kids there isn't much time to go around. Add to it a church responsibility that is like a full-time job and I'm amazed I have time to breathe, really.

"I felt I wouldn't get enough time with my kids if I sent them off to school."

Wow. I felt awful.

He continued, "There are so many things I want to teach them that I think are important and I thought if I sent them off to school I'd only have them for an hour or so in the morning and then a few hours after school and then it's bedtime. When would I teach them those things that I think are important?"

I began to change my perspective. Home schooling became more at that point. Yes, the awful teachers are a big factor in our decision and the main reason why Nathan agreed to home schooling. No, I don't spend my days constantly teaching my kids the big life lessons, at least not intentionally. But every day I know my kids are learning something, are realizing they can do something they didn't think was possible, are grasping concepts that were out of their reach the day before, and they're doing these things TOGETHER. And I get to see it happen. How awesome is that?!

Our home school days are infinitely better than our lazy summer days. We begin the day with a song, usually from the children's hymn book our church uses, but sometimes the kids ask for a "grown-up" hymn. Then prayer, the pledge of allegiance, the Oklahoma pledge, and scripture study are next. We just finished reading the kid's Book of Mormon, the one with pictures and descriptions underneath. They loved taking turns reading it to each other. Then we move on to other school stuff. Usually since I have them all together after scripture study we do one of the subjects that we can do together like history or science. Then we separate. I'll work with one or two kids depending on what we need to do. I might do math with Megan and Jeremy together while Emma listens to a book on CD or practices her writing. Then I'll switch and do math with Emma while Megan and Jeremy finish their math work that doesn't require me being right with them. Then I'll have Megan listen to Emma read while I do writing and grammar with Jeremy. We go like this, switching around until snack/lunch time. Usually after we eat the kids like to get back together and I read to them. Right now we are reading A Series of Unfortunate Events. We just finished The Wide Window and tomorrow we'll start The Miserable Mill. I'm excited because now Jeremy and Emma have no idea what to expect since the movie only covered the first three books. Nathan and I took turns reading the books to Megan a few years ago, so she remembers some of what happens. Then we do P.E. For this we try to be creative. They can ride their bikes, do archery, or take turns calling out random exercises and a number while music blasts from Pandora. The random exercise days are my favorite because it's so cute watching Emma try to do push ups while Jeremy totally rocks them. Plus, it's fun watching Lincoln try to do any of what they do :)  If they have been really good all day, they might get to do a special P.E. like Just Dance on the Wii or something I love which I stole from Pinterest (thank you, Pinterest!). Have you seen those workouts geared for Harry Potter movies? For example, every time Hagrid says, "I shouldn'ta said that," the kids have to do 20 jumping jacks. Every time someone does a spell, they have to run in place for 30 seconds. And on and on and on. My kids love it because they rarely get screen time. I love it because I can just write the exercises on the white board and go make dinner. They don't simply zone out while watching the movie, at least not for the first hour or so. After a while when they're worn out I let them sit and watch the movie without all the exercises, but we usually have a die hard who will try to make it all the way to the end doing each of the exercises.

The awesome part of all this? We start school 45 minutes later than the public school and end 45 minutes sooner (most days).

I'll write more later about what textbooks we're using. I wanted to include it here, but this is already pretty long. I just wanted to give an update here for those who were wondering what our home school days have been like. I know some of you who know me well wondered if I could really do it. I don't blame you, I wondered, too.

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Harry Potter and The Whys of Life

Most of you know that Megan can read a book three times before I get through it once. She is an incredibly voracious reader. She ended the school year with more AR (remember that post?) points than any other kid in her class, and probably in the school, and received a special award for her hard work.

For the last year or so Megan and I have been working our way through the Harry Potter books for bedtime. A couple nights ago we finished Half Blood Prince. As we got further and further into the series and the books got darker and darker, I became more worried about Megan's ability to read these books without having nightmares. Her night terrors resurfaced a couple months ago and I've no interest in seeing them return on a full-time basis. The few she had brought memories of being helpless and frustrated to the forefront of my mind.

I think it was her first grade teacher that did a whole unit on fiction vs. nonfiction during reading. I'm grateful for this because since then, she's done so much better with "scary" books and movies. But still, these books get much more dark and scary than Jim Henson's The Dark Crystal.

*Spoiler Alert: If you haven't read the books and have no intention of doing so, you're all good. If for some insane reason you haven't read the Harry Potter books because you've been putting it off, you might want to skip the next two paragraphs.

We got to the chapter where Harry and Dumbledore are in the cave and the inferi are about to attack. I knew that no amount of fiction vs. non-fiction discussion would be enough, Megan wouldn't be able to handle it. I was right. I wasn't a full sentence into it and I had to stop and ask Megan if she wanted me to skip that part. It was the first time I'd had to skip anything.

Then came the confrontation between Dumbledore and Snape on the astronomy tower. I can't read that part without crying. I'm not sure how many times I've read the books. I read them with Nathan, each once. But I've also read them on my own for fun and also for study (before the last book came out I read each book and took notes on Snape, trying to find out if he was truly a Death Eater or not). I cried and cried through that whole section. When we finished it, Megan and I talked for a bit. She's a smart cookie, that Megan. On her own she decided that Dumbledore was asking Snape to kill him. She didn't fully understand why, but she knew Dumbledore wasn't asking Snape to not kill him.

It was so hard as a mother to not share with Megan all I know about the Dumbledore/Snape relationship. I wanted to comfort her, to explain to her the background information so it would all make sense. I wanted her to pity Snape and see him in a new light. Instead I had to let her grieve for Dumbledore and remain confused and upset with Snape.

If I'd been reading this book with another adult who didn't know what happens in the final book, I wouldn't have been as tempted to share all I know about what's to come and the whys of what happened. I'd be excited for them to read the next book and discover on their own what's to come. However, because it was Megan, my child who internalizes books the same way I do, because I could see the pain she felt and felt it myself, I wanted to ease her pain and explain it all away.

But I couldn't do that. How much more will she appreciate finding out on her own, the right way, than if I told her all I know.

It made me think of our Father in Heaven. He who knows all. He who knows all the whys and hows. Sometimes He gives us little glimpses, but never all the reasons and information. He lets us find out on our own and as we do, He comforts us if we let him. As we go through life and experience the horrible, or difficult, of seemingly unfair trials of life, we always want to know the whys. As Megan had to trust me that all would be well, and trust me when I said I couldn't explain it all right then, we must believe our Father in Heaven when He says all will be well if we trust in Him, despite how grim or sad or terrible things look and how few answers we have at the moment.

We've begun reading Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. We're a couple chapters in now. I'm excited to be with Megan as she ends this adventure. I'm grateful I get to be with her as she learns all the whys and hows. I'm grateful I get to see her face as she makes these discoveries. I'm excited to talk with her when it's all done and over and we can sit and contemplate and mull over this world that was created for us to enjoy. Just as I'm sure our Heavenly Father is excited to sit and contemplate and mull over with us, when it's over, this earthly world that was created by Him for us to enjoy.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Another New Adventure

As I've been preparing for homeschooling the kids I've gone back and forth between feeling more excited and more scared. I feel inadequate a lot, but take comfort in the fact that the text books are easy to use, that there's a wealth of information available online, and that my kids love learning.

Preparing for homeschooling has, so far, taken up a lot of time. Looking at different curriculum, online lesson plans for supplementing and fun activities, changing the bedrooms around and creating a school room, there's been a lot to do and I feel like there still is. Because I am really not good at being organized, I tend to want to over organize and that is time consuming. But all in all, I'm excited and I feel blessed to live in a state where we have some of the best laws protecting homeschooling. I feel blessed to have kids who love to learn and are very proactive about their learning. I feel blessed to know that with the proper text books and with my own knowledge and wisdom, and with Christ's help, I can teach my children what they need to know and how to be good citizens.

Now, in the midst of all this, I am embarking on another adventure. This past Sunday I was given a new calling at church. For those of you who aren't familiar with LDS slang and terminology, a calling is a job you perform at church for a period of time. How long is usually dependent upon which calling you have, as some are held for a few years and others can be much shorter or longer. Before we officially moved here I was asked to create the Sunday program, the paper that says who's speaking, what songs we'll sing, and the announcements, calendar info, etc. Shortly after that I was asked to also teach the women's class (Relief Society) every fourth Sunday. I've loved my calling to teach. (The program calling is fine, mundane and at times stressful because it involves a computer program that I'm not that great at, but it's fine).

On Sunday I was released from my calling as a Relief Society teacher and called to be the Young Women's President.

I've never had a calling like this. The responsibility feels overwhelming at times, but I am incredibly excited. I've always wanted to work with the young women of the church (the 12-18 year olds) and I feel very blessed to have received this calling.

Just like with homeschooling, I will continue to go back and forth feeling excited and scared; I will feel inadequate a lot, but take comfort in my two councilors who will help me, the scriptures, my Savior, and the hundreds of activity ideas online :)  This will be incredibly time consuming and will require sacrifice from everyone in my family. There might be less vacation time and fewer bedtime stories read at night (at least those read by me), but I know that as a family we will be blessed.

Girls' Camp is coming up as well as Youth Conference. I am excited. I know both of these things will put a strain on my family, and I hope that they will bear it well. I find it kind of strange that I'm excited about Girls' Camp. I was never a big fan of it when I was in Young Women's. The rivalry between the different congregations really bugged me and it lost a lot of its fun because of that. I hope here they don't have that same rivalry. If it does exist here, I'll have to find some way of nipping it in the bud.

I have some ideas so far of what I want to accomplish with the girls, overall goals, I guess. I am mostly worried about activity ideas, I guess, and how to get them excited about Personal Progress. If any of you have any suggestions, I'd love to hear them!

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

The Big Reveal

 The pictures may not be a big enough clue for those of you who have no idea what we will begin this summer. Personally, I think the globe is a good clue.

If you can't tell, even by zooming on the picture, there are history, math, reading, and writing books on the bookshelf on top of the dresser.

Here's a picture of Lincoln playing with some marbles in the new room. Behind him is a poster of minerals and another of colors and shapes. Sorry if it's kind of fuzzy. I can't seem to get the focus on the camera to work lately.

Here's our reading book shelf. We've got our classics, fiction, non-fiction, sci-fi, fantasy, etc. Even Lincoln's bedtime stories are up there. It's our own little library. And then the whiteboard in front, of course.

And Lincoln, posing with the books and a few more posters.

So just in case you haven't caught on or aren't sure, we are homeschooling beginning this summer. At first, when the kids get out of school in May, we'll do it once a week so the kids can slowly get used to learning at home and get used to my teaching style. It will also help me get more comfortable with the curricula. In the fall we will begin homeschooling full-time.

In a recent post, I wrote about the school here. It's supposed to be fantastic, but isn't. I've gotten so frustrated with the school that I decided that I won't gamble with my kids' education and sit and hope they get good teachers next year. Granted, Jeremy's teacher isn't awful, but still I think they are watching too many movies. Too many movies and excuses and not enough reading and math. Too many classroom activities centered around Smartboards where all the kids learn is more about "technology." Lessons that easily could be taught in a more old school fashion where the kids learn more than how to drag their fingers against a wall are what is needed. It also astounds me what isn't even being discussed in the classrooms, like geography and history and civics.  The closest they come is Martin Luther King Jr. Day and Presidents' Day.

When Megan was 15 months old, her pediatrician said we'd have to homeschool her because the public schools wouldn't be able to keep up with her. The thought terrified me. I didn't want to homeschool. I didn't know what it would entail, but I figured it'd be more work than what I wanted to do. As she got older and I discovered my love for writing, I realized that unless I became much more organized and deaf, I would never be able to really spend time writing my books. Unless I was alone in the house, I couldn't focus on my writing with all the kids' noises and having to constantly stop for diaper changes, arguments over toys, making lunches and snacks. So as the kids have gotten older and more kids have joined the family, my time for writing diminished greatly and my looking forward to a day when all the kids were in school full-time increased exponentially.

I only had about 3 years to go before all the kids were in school (Faye being in preschool, so only half day, but still). I was so close to having all morning to write. It's gone now. Yes, I feel sorry for myself. No, I'm not looking for people to say, "If you want to write, you'll find the time," because frankly I don't believe that's true. Yes, I could find the time, between the hours of midnight and 2AM I could get some serious writing done. I've managed it before. However, each time I attempt this, I become a horrible person to be around because of lack of sleep and I get sick more often. So, late night writing isn't really an option for me. After the kids are in bed is my time to see Nathan. Writing when he's around is distracting, too, so telling him to go away after being home for an hour and a half or that I need to leave to find a quiet place where I can be alone and write won't really work for us. Right now, Lincoln and Emma require so much supervision that I can't leave them unsupervised for 5 minutes. Already, while writing only the previous paragraph, Lincoln has gotten into the bathroom and flooded the counter, ruining a roll of toilet paper and dirtying all my measuring cups. I do have planned that we will write, or draw stories in the case of kids too young to actually write, every day. I hope that will afford me time to write my stories as I model it for them.

Saying nothing of the financial aspect of this, homeschooling will be a big sacrifice. I've gotten off Facebook in an attempt to have fewer distractions during the homeschool day. I won't be checking e-mail, answering my phone, texting, or on Pinterest. Facebook became too big of a problem. It affected my moods in a negative way when I saw certain posts and stories.

The kids are sacrificing, too. They are all sharing a room now. We took down Megan and Emma's beds and stored them in the attic. Our neighbors bought a new bed for their teenage daughter and gave us her old bed, a trundle. So the girls share a trundle bed and we moved the boys' bunk bed into the girls' room. As you saw in the first picture, their dresser is still sitting in the homeschool room. There's just no room for a second dresser in the girls' room and Jeremy and Lincoln still have clothes and toys in the closet, too. That's why I added the curtains in the picture--out of sight, out of mind.

I will have to learn to be more organized with my time and errands. I won't be able to run into town every time I need something, not like I can now anyway. We try to limit our trips into town since it takes so long to get there.

I hope to keep the kids busy enough that they won't really have time to argue and fight like they normally do during the summer and winter breaks. We'll all be in this one room for most of the school day. There will be times that I work with one or two kids while one or two are left to work on their own in a different room, but at least for science and history the kids' will be learning from the same text book. Art will be all together, as will music, quiet reading, free writing. We'll also start our day together with scripture study. Scripture study will be fun because I have multiple books for it. Bible story books, a heros of The Book of Mormon book, and a few kid books that tell scripture stories that we'll use.

I'll do a post later that will go over the curriculum I've chosen. I'm still looking at an LDS option to enrich what I've already picked. A friend who is also beginning homeschooling this fall is using the LDS homeschool curriculum, and I'm going to take a look at it when she gets it. I think I'd like to use it in addition to what we will be using.

There you have it, our next big adventure!